I hear it all the time - 'That movie was so gay,' or 'That song is totally gay.' My brothers say it all the time, though they've learned more and more to not say it around me. But they think I'm being silly, cause 'everyone knows its not meant like that' and 'you always take things too seriously.'
I remember I was back in my hometown about two years ago, and two little kids were watching the second Spiderman movie on the TV, and one kid said to the other, 'oh, the first Spiderman movie was gay.' The second one said back, 'what does that mean?' and the first one was like, 'it means stupid.'
And I said to myself, this is proof this issue isn't silly. This is how it happens. What if one of those kids in a few years goes through puberty and is gay themselves? They'll know, without even having to think about it, that 'everybody' thinks that what they are is just another word for 'stupid.' Talk about not starting out on a level playing field.
And this sometimes results in death, as it did this week to a poor child in Georgia. As it did a year ago in Massachusetts. There are things we can do to stop this. More below.
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